As I sat in the car, early in the morning, I was looking forward to catching some sleep on the five hour drive. But just as we started on our way I realised that the driver needed directions at least till we reached the outskirts of Mumbai. There went my plans of shut eye and while navigating I took the opportunity to observe the recently resumed early morning activity in the city.
Saturday, 30 April 2022
A trip of memories - old and new
Sunday, 17 April 2022
Vegetarian Food Paradise - Shree Thakar Bhojanalaya
There is an Irish proverb, “Laughter is brightest in the place where food is good’. A Mumbai institution since 1945, Shri Thakkar Bhojanalaya is one such place. The joy and aromas in this small eatery in Kalbadevi are its USP. With the quality of food remaining the same, the amount of spices and oils not any more than in home food and the servers serving as if you were a guest at their own home; this is a place that has its loyal patrons whose tribe is only growing.
I
was introduced to this quaint little eatery by father and his younger brother
(Chacha). The two brothers love to visit this place as they get to eat their
favourite Gujarati and Rajasthani foods in the form of a thali and customised
to their tastes. So while Chacha likes his food spicy, Papa prefers it medium.
Come to Thakkar Bhojanalya and not only these two but me who eats minimal
spices also has an awesome time. So all their vegetables and curries are made
to cater to people with different spice levels and the menu changes daily. In fact,
the family that own this place also gets their meals catered to from the
restaurant.
Yesterday I decided that it was time I took Persepolis and her mother to this iconic food joint as she had never been there. Born and brought up in Mumbai, educated in institutions close to this eatery and worked in the lanes even closer; this friend of mine was oblivious to the existence of Shri Thakkar Bhojanalaya. Once she obliged me with an appointment in her calendar I decided I would waste no time and so the dinner was decided.
Reaching
the place is a bit of a chore, given that it is smack in the centre of old
Mumbai with narrow lanes and hand carts plying. Once there, it is your luck how
long or short would be the wait. I was prepared for a twenty minute wait but
fortunately it was only a couple of
minutes. A very comfortable table for three allotted to us we got the empty
thalis with the endless vatis (katori) and Persepolis was super excited. She
wanted to understand how much food would come our way and vowed not to eat till
all her vatis were full.
First came the salad and the chutneys followed by the starters or the farsans as they are locally known. They were piping hot and tempting but Persepolis held on. Then came the aamras, the mango puree, and that bulldozed all temptation away. She just dug into the vati and I was smiling. The veggies and curries were delayed as aunty and I had requested for non-spicy variety. Unable to hold herself any longer, Persepolis decided that she would get the spicy lot that was already being served. And soon her thali was full. As the server with the papad walked by she stopped him to take one, not that she craved it but wanted to taste all the items on the menu. With the thali full she dug in and seeing her smile was pure joy.
Soon
the non-spicy food came and we were on our way to a food coma as well. Now
before I move ahead, as you can see the variety of the veggies and the curries
I will not spend time on that. But dear readers, you should know that the
breads are also of a minimum five types – jowar roti (the one that has my
preference), bajra roti (which is served with jaggery), wheat roti (with ghee),
biscuit bhakri (which is delightful but heavy) and puri (yummy but deep fried).
So I got my jowar roti, aunty took bajra and wheat and Persepolis took one of
each! She was like a child in the playground with new toys!
I
was savouring the food and taking my time with each curry. There was no place
for desserts either in my stomach or in my thali. Persepolis decided that when
satisfying the taste buds the sweet tooth had to be catered to first. So she took
the kalajaum and the sheera. While by the end she could not eat the kala jamun
she loved the coconut sheera.
Just
if you thought this is where the meal was over, no. There was rice, pulao and
khichdi still left to go! I had no place for anything but at the insistence of
the person incharge I had a teaspoon of the khichdi and the pulao. They were
delicious! Persepolis and aunty enjoyed the khichdi but post that even
Persepolis had to stay stop to the food onslaught. We were full to the brim and
more. It was an absolutely delicious meal served with love and at INR 700 a
person it was not expensive.
Just before we got up to leave we realised that the buttermilk had been left. Well it is supposed to be a digestive and in that light Persepolis and I drank to toast our fabulous dinner. We were all happy campers. Alighting the stairs Persepolis claimed that she would now recommend Shree Thakker Bhojanalya to anyone and everyone she met. In the next instant she had a realisation and said, “ Well I would be recommending a place that everyone already knows of.” Better late than never my friend!
Until
we meet again, enjoy the food photographs and if possible a visit to this food
paradise!
Friday, 15 April 2022
Kaziranga
They say you don't know when you fall in love and then to deepen it you should have no expectations. I do know when I fell in love with Meghalaya, it was love at first sight. As I was leaving for Kaziranga, I was sad. I was leaving a love behind, or so it felt. But what happened was that the clouds and the weather followed me to the plains. The cloud covered mountains were visible even as we entered Kaziranga. The weather maintained its hum and I just felt that the love had followed me. So to ensure that this love only deepened I had no expectations from my morning Safari. I wanted to enjoy the experience and that was it.
As the Jeep rolled into the National Park my heart just swelled with the beauty that my eyes encountered. It was lush green with specks of brown and purple. It was pristine and fresh with bursts of scents and the aroma of wet sands. It was tranquil and calm with spurts of birds chirping and animals calling. This natural ecosystem was the result of the consummation of the perfect marriage between the masculine and the feminine.
I stood up at the back, holding on to the bars on the side and soaking in the beauty around me when I spotted the herd of elephants. These were female elephants on their morning graze. I learnt that day that female elephants do not have tusks and walk in the middle of the herd to protect the young ones. Tigers in the forest only attack the young ones and not the grown up male or female elephants. Kind of obvious right, I meant one swing of the trunk and the carnivore would be pulverised.
After the
"Sri Ganesh" of the safari we moved ahead on the narrow roads, once
in a while crossing another Jeep. This trail was only for vehicles and the
elephant safari trail was a separate location. Trivia - Kaziranga has sperate
elephant safari trails for Indians and foreigners. As the Jeep rolled on
suddenly I thought I saw a rock move. My sleep deprived brain was playing
tricks but before we moved ahead I squealed because the deer raised its head
and I saw the two beauties resting close to one another. The driver halted and
I took a couple of shots. Oh how I wished I had bought a telephoto lens! The
150mm zoom was not doing justice to the view that the naked eye was capturing.
At least the raw image capture would be some silver lining!
These were the hog deers that we saw and soon we came by a bevy of swamp deers or barasingha as we call it in India. The animals were lazing early in the morning and it seemed as if some were fighting slumber still. We stood there for a few minutes and some heads came up only to go down, some stood up, walked a few steps and then retreated but a large number just were not interested in us. Once again the lens was inadequate but the raw image helped. Trivia - Hog and swamp deers are not spotted deer species.
Now was the
time to go and find the Rhino, the Wild Buffalo and the Tiger. As we entered
the woodland (the deeper forest) I was told to stop any expectations of the
Rhino or the Buffalo but to be on the look out for species of snakes. It sent
creeps through my skin and I sat down right in the center of the seat at the
back. I was absolutely fine if we missed all reptiles altogether. Trivia -
There are no crocodile or alligators in Kaziranga.
Back to the
grasslands my eyes were starting to lookout for the big ones. We came by a jeep
of documentary film makers who told us they had spotted a tiger just a few
meters ahead but it had wandered into the trees. Wanting to take a chance we
headed in that direction and before we left I almost asked the photographer if
I could borrow his telephoto lens, but hesitating I just kept shut.
At the designated spot we waited for ten minutes but the tiger was no where to be found. We saw two pelicans in flight, once again the naked eye rejoiced while the camera cried. As we decided to wait a while longer it started to rain and I realised that the tiger had decided it did not want to oblige me. With the hood tacked on, we moved ahead where in my world I saw the most beautiful sight - golden ducks all in a row. The golden Siberian ducks or the Ruddy shelduck is a gorgeous migratory bird that flies from its home in Siberia to India to tide over the harsh cold. At the end of March, these were the last lot left before they flew back home. How could these small, tender looking creatures undertake such a long and arduous flight ! They were gorgeous and I got some good shots. Trivia - Ruddy shelduck pair and mate for life. The male has a black ring on the neck which is missing in the female.
Rejoicing in
the chance encounter I was lost in my thoughts when we stopped at a point where
the wild buffalo, the rhino and deers all grazed side by side. Not one
distracted the other, not one ventured towards the other and not one animal
made a sound. Live and let live seemed to be the personification here. As I was
trying to capture the animals in my SD card, as best as I could, I saw a bird
go and perch itself on the buffalo. The endearing interaction lifted my spirits
to say love exists.
We were now
on our way back when a Bharadwaj flew by and perched itself on the brown grass.
The blessing was welcome and the proximity was a blessing for the camera.
Taking a few shots I was ready to get back to the hotel and leave for
Guwahati.
As we moved
towards the exit we saw the bevy of barasinghas yet again. They were l content
as was I. Closer to the exit I spotted elephants again and this time, the male
in the distance raised his trunk as if in salute and I saw the tusks in all
their glory. It was the perfect goodbye.
On the way
to the hotel all I could think and hope was that falling in love should always
be this easy. I was glad to know that another species subscribed to my view
that mating and pairing should be for life. I kept thinking that if only
respect, affection and compassion would really be as unconditional as I encountered
that morning how wonderful the world could be.
Tuesday, 5 April 2022
Blessings around
As I returned from my holiday, waiting to start the next innings of my professional career I had three packages waiting for me. One was from family, one was a set of documents to be signed and the third one was from now an ex colleague. It was a small gesture but it said, "now whenever you pick up this flask you will remember me". His last email to me said, "you are irreplaceable". I was just humbled.
Before this, in Delhi I had two ex-colleagues reach out to me. They wanted guidance and help in planning their career. As I spoke to them and understood their aspirations and desires, I once again saw the trust they placed in me. It reminded me of my responsibility to them and that again was quite humbling. To have built a rapport, while working remotely, where they trusted me enough; I must have done something right.
And then came the call from someone who is a great person and as a professional I have tried to guide with all honesty. A recent realisation was that not only is he risk averse and brand concious but also not as driven as I thought he was. All of this makes him the unique person that he is - trustworthy, reliable, thorough and very respectful. A very rare individual to come across in his age group. He was calling me up to tell me how he had just been made an offer. How exciting!
Thinking of all of the above, I drove to meet an old friend for lunch. We had planned this weeks ago. In the hot and sultry Mumbai weather we were meeting at an old colonial restaurant that both of us liked. It was a relaxed and unpretentious afternoon. More than the food it was the company I enjoyed. How far have we both come from being the teenagers in high school unsure of where our careers would go! Today, we both had a laugh on varied issues and just communicated. Who cared where one had landed professionally. The fact that we share this ease after all these years, is the biggest gift and victory! In fact we even planned a dinner the day after with another friend who is visiting from the US.
As far as family is concerned of course I won the lottery but even as far as friends are concerned I have struck gold. I am grateful for these old and new connects that help me stick to my roots, remember my responsibilities and ensure that I always keep my heart open. I am a heart person and that has given me all these brilliant moments. Yes it has brought me hurt as well, both personally and professionally. But that will not stop me. I have picked up and moved on and I know that from now on I will be safe and strong.
I am not sure why I am writing this, maybe it's the emotions. Maybe it's my way of etching this in my memory. Maybe it's sending a message to the universe. Whatever be the reason, the bottom line is that I am filled with gratitude and thanks. As I start a new chapter I hope and pray that Ma answers my prayers and helps me continue being the heart person she sent me as.
So stay tuned for more to come, especially a note on Kaziranga.
Sunday, 3 April 2022
A Blessed Holiday
I wanted a short holiday and I needed a break. The options in my mind were multiple, including a short trip to London. Have not been there in over 2 years now and am missing the city. Yet it was not where my heart was drawn to. After the recent trip to Ladhak, that rekindled my romance with the mountains, I wanted to explore the hills.